Be confident

I am going to need allot of time with a shrink to get and confidence back because right now I have none.

That was just one of my points which I took out of the original statement. If someone is overweight I see that as not having respect for themselves so if they do not respect their own bodies why would I bother with them?

Shit happens. Sometimes people gain weight and don't actually realize they've gained any until it gets quite noticeable. So what? The point is that weight can be lost.

Talk about self respect? I have a hard time believing that you've got much other than pseudo-self-respect for yourself.... what kind of self-respecting man carries on a pseudo-relationship with a hooker instead of trying to meet a decent woman?

And whatever you do, do not mention the hooker.

Haha, agreed!

Also, don't fucking do beta shit like DLV (demonstrating a lower value) or trying to elicit pity. That's the best way to kill a woman's attraction for you. Women want confident men who are desired by other women. When I was 19, I was getting busy with this hot girl with an amazing rack, and it was going well until I spewed out:

"Wow, it's been a really long time since I did this with a girl!"

Every failure is a learning experience.

I am going to need allot of time with a shrink to get and confidence back because right now I have none.

You don't need a shrink. Read some books are watch some video seminars.

1. How old are you?

2. Do you consider yourself a physically attractive guy?

Haha, agreed!

Also, don't fucking do beta shit like DLV (demonstrating a lower value) or trying to elicit pity. That's the best way to kill a woman's attraction for you. Women want confident men who are desired by other women. When I was 19, I was getting busy with this hot girl with an amazing rack, and it was going well until I spewed out:

"Wow, it's been a really long time since I did this with a girl!"

Every failure is a learning experience.

Another bad line: "All women hate me!"

You need to project the image that all women just love you, and that the girl you're talking to ought to feel damn special that you chose to talk to her.

You need to project the image that all women just love you, and that the girl you're talking to ought to feel damn special that you chose to talk to her.

Couldn't have said it better myself. Another to avoid:

"I haven't had a girlfriend in [xx time period]."

Talk about self respect? I have a hard time believing that you've got much other than pseudo-self-respect for yourself.... what kind of self-respecting man carries on a pseudo-relationship with a hooker instead of trying to meet a decent woman?

A man who has lost all hope in white women.

1. How old are you?

2. Do you consider yourself an attractive guy?

23, 6'1 190-200 pounds, fit, I have never had a girl friend so I can not comment on my own looks.

A man who has lost all hope in white women.

And for no good reason. Just because you have no confidence in yourself does not mean that all white women are worthless. You project your insecurities and turn them into faults of the opposite sex to take the pressure off yourself.

23, 6'1 190-200 pounds, fit, I have never had a girl friend so I can not comment on my own looks.

Post your picture on Hot or Not and see what rating you get.

Don't see women as a way to validate yourself.

I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was 18, and even then I had no clue what the fuck I was doing. I consider myself quite attractive, and I foolishly thought that it would be enough to succeed with women. Men still have to take the iniative.

Send your pic to Pixi, I sent mine to her a while back and I'm (pretty) sure she hasn't shared it with anyone. She can vouch for my attractiveness. 😎

Pixi, if he sends you his pic, be honest with him. Hair style, clothing, etc. Or hell dude, send it to me.

Post your picture on Hot or Not and see what rating you get.

I wouldn't say that's a good indicator of attractiveness. ;0

Send your pic to Pixi, I sent mine to her a while back and I'm (pretty) sure she hasn't shared it with anyone.

Nope, no one saw it but me.

Pixi, if he sends you his pic, be honest with him. Hair style, clothing, etc. Or hell dude, send it to me.

That might be possible, then again the escort says I am good looking.

That might be possible, then again the escort says I am good looking.

Of course she does. She's telling you what you want to hear and you're paying her. Send me or Pixi your picture, preferably a whole body as you're normally dressed. You need to keep in mind that looks is only a small part of the game when attracting women. Ever wonder why you see good looking women with average or even ugly guys? Social value and personality.

Of course she does. She's telling you what you want to hear and you're paying her.

You took the words right off my keyboard.

Just a tip: If you're paying someone to have sex with you/spend time with you, they will tell you whatever they think will cause you to buy more of their time.

Send me or Pixi your picture, preferably a whole body as you're normally dressed.

It might take me a couple days to build up that much courage.

Ever wonder why you see good looking women with average or even ugly guys?

Thats why I bitch so much.

Don't fucking approach and start ranting about RAHOWA and nogs.

aww why not it worked for me